Sometimes life is just funny. Not funny ha ha, but funny in a way that if you don't laugh you might just cry. The situations that just pop up and hit you like a ton of bricks. Those are the worst. No time to adjust, no dipping your toe in the water...you're just plunged into the frigid reality that things will not always be the way you imagined them. It's HARD to deal with. Not much else to say.